I’m way too shy to let anyone see my body naked. I look like a starving child, even though I’m 19. People tell me I look great, but they can’t see how thin I am under the layers. I eat lots but just can’t put on weight so I’m stuck like this. If […]
Emily Power Smith
My background is in art therapy and the healing arts, education and facilitation, I have recently completed a Masters Degree in Sexology in Western Australia.
I have returned with a clear mission: To create a safe and respectful environment for ALL people to avail of their basic human right to sexual health, equality and enjoyment by providing open dialogue, correct information, support and therapy.
There should be no room for shame, guilt or fear relating to sexual behaviours as long as they are consenting and respectful, and there should be no judgement of anyone who does not fit our manufactured concepts of what is "normal" or "right". But beyond that, my aim is to celebrate the most natural, normal and beautiful form of sharing, affection, love and exploration known to all animals. I come from a place of damage and healing and my journey to empowerment and deep joy will never end.
I invite others to join me and to share from their hearts so that we can move forward together through the difficult, painful and dark, to the exciting, stimulating and fun. I am strong, determined and I will do my best to create value out of even the most challenging of sexual issues.
Penises
I’m worried my penis is too small to be good in bed. I’ve slept with loads of women and only a couple have had orgasms during sex. I can last about 30 minutes and am training myself to last longer. What can I do to make my penis bigger? I don’t know how […]
Oral Pleasure – Males
When I’m giving my boyfriend a blow job he wants me to swallow but I hate the taste so I spit it into a tissue or go to the toilet. He moans about it every time. Who’s right? If he wants you to swallow his ejaculate and you don’t like the taste, ask […]
Male Sexual Problems
What are the most common sexual problems for men? Men ask me this all the time! Premature or rapid ejaculation, erectile problems and performance anxiety are the most common issues. They often appear in combinations and one can lead to another. For example, a man with erectile problems will often develop performance anxiety […]
Male Orgasms
Can men have multiple orgasms? Because ejaculation and orgasm usually happen at the same time, we think they’re the same thing, but they aren’t, and while most men experience one ejaculation, they can have lots of orgasms. It’s also worth noting that you can have dry or non-ejaculatory orgasms with or without an […]
Do Men Have G-Spots?
Do men have G-spots? The male G-spot is actually his prostate gland, which is about the size of a walnut and is found about two inches inside the anal canal on the front wall (facing his tummy). The prostate gland helps control urine release (it’s right below the bladder) and also produces some […]
Older Sexuality
I have chronic lower back pain for the last two years and I don’t know if I’ll ever be rid of it. My wife and I have avoided sex in case we make my back worse, and we kept expecting it to get better. But if it doesn’t get better, is that the end […]
Masturbation / Self-loving / Self-pleasure
Is it excessive to masturbate 4 or 5 times a week? It’s great to masturbate regularly and 4 or 5 times a week is nowhere near being a problem. In fact, there’s some solid research showing that men’s prostate health is helped by ejaculating between 5 and 7 times a week. It’s a […]
Educating Our Children & Young People
I worry about my 14-year-old daughter’s safety when she goes out. She wants to wear really short shorts, fake tan and bare legs. Her bum cheeks are hanging out. I don’t think it’s a safe way to dress but I don’t want to frighten her. What can I do? You’re right to worry […]
Sexual Communication
My boyfriend’s idea of seduction is to wake me up and display his huge boner. I’m delighted to be getting some but do wish for a little less of the macho lead-in. Any suggestions? You clearly enjoy being sexual with your partner and appreciate his attention. But you need to talk. Sleepy sex […]